Chris's mom thinks it's up to Becca whether she ends up with Chris. "What do you think if I'm ready to commit to a relationship at this point?" she asked. Chris's mom doesn't know: "You gotta put yourself out there," she said, and Becca started crying.
Chris's mom thinks Becca is in love with Chris but doesn't know it. Do you agree?
"I'm not ready to say yes to a proposal," Becca admitted. "It was a lot for me to deal with [their comments about how hard a long distance relationship would be."
"I think Becca's who Chris wants," his dad said. "I don't know how it'll go if he picks her."
@SandyWilhelm: It's interesting that none of the women have pressured him into that, isn't it? I know he has a farm, but I don't think that's even come up?
We're back, and now we're in Dubuque, Iowa. "Today I'm absolutely overwhelmed," he said. "I'm falling in love with both Whitney and Becca. .... It's really hard to know I have two days left to make a decision."
Chris is now with Becca at a hotel. "This is the last time we'll see each other before the last rose ceremony," he said. "Tonight is huge for Becca and I." He seems nervous, right?
"I want everything that you can give me, from your heart that I can have right now, just to know because I've been struggling," he said. "I'm struggling," she admitted. "I'm falling in love with you and I hate the fact that I'm just not there yet."
Chris is now asking if she could really see herself having a future with him. "I feel every emotion that you just said. I'm so excited to be with you and I don't think it'll be this easy, breezy long distance ... but I can't make any promises. A timeline of when I'll be ready to move and pick up my life," she said. He seems upset.
She's not sure if her lack of relationship experience is why she feels so confused about what to do. "You can't tell me [what you want and] that's scary," he said. She said she wants to get married and have kids but can't say when. "Why don't you feel like you're in love with me?" he asked her. "I don't know and I want it so badly to be able to answer that question and it be what you want to hear," she said.
"All I know right now is that I want you. That is the one thing that I'm sure about and everything else is cloudy and scary," she said. "I wish you could just say, 'I believe in us,'" he said. "I do, I want it to work," she responded. She seems really conflicted, and he seems concerned.
